Since man is the primary labor force on the planet (machines are stronger but still more expensive than humans), and woman is a biological conveyor belt for producing cheap labor to serve the system, patriarchy dehumanized both sexes into instruments: it stripped women of economic independence, reduced men to resource providers for the entire family, and banned sex outside of marriage — effectively suppressing men’s natural drive for polygamy and gene dissemination.
Women have an innate maternal instinct; men — a biological drive for multiple mating. The universal human need is direct access to resources through self-realization.
Marriage fulfills a woman’s basic needs: resources — through a man, and love and belonging — through children. A man, by contrast, is evolutionarily driven to share his gene pool with women who want to give birth — not to shorten his lifespan grinding through multiple jobs, raising offspring, and financing a random woman’s lifestyle in exchange for his basic biological need, which she used to lure him into a monogamous relationship — in order to monopolize him as a labor force — and eventually into marriage.
The collapse of patriarchy began when sex became available outside of marriage, and women gained the ability to support themselves. By earning her own living, a woman stepped out of her patriarchal role and into the status of an autonomous human being. Likewise, a man can enter this new era by fulfilling his basic needs through polygamy.
Marriage is a relationship model in which nearly all the benefits accrue to the woman. That’s why, in a world where sex is widely accessible, marriage lowers a man's status: he becomes a loser, castrated by monogamy, with a parasitic woman having turned him into a slave extracting resources for herself and her children — and, in the case of divorce, demanding not only alimony but also a portion of the property he earned through hard labor.
While a woman lures you into the trap of monogamy with her sexuality, remember — you can simply jerk off. You don’t need to trade your freedom for sex just because some random person refuses to grow as an individual. As long as you don’t need someone’s help to use the bathroom, you can satisfy your primal biological urge on your own, like a fully functioning human being.
And when you no longer see another person as a tool to fix your own problems — when both of you are self-actualized and financially independent — a man and a woman only need each other for sex: either as a brief emotional experience driven by hormones and the novelty of early encounters, or, if the woman wants to become a mother — for reproduction. Just as a mature woman fulfills her maternal instinct by providing for her offspring, a mature man fulfills his polygamous drive by caring for multiple romantic partners. Psychological and intellectual needs are often better fulfilled by a same-sex friend.
You can always retreat into monogamy and the comfort of home life with a woman when your testosterone levels drop, and you no longer have the energy or resources to conquer new territories.
In response to the comment on my post:
"For most men, there are few choices beyond monogamy that do not sooner or later get him banished from the herd if he enjoys himself too much with a sampling of females, in an environment where few get to do that."
Tatiana Gerasimenok: The struggle of women to break free from patriarchy took decades — with the risk of being ridiculed, excluded, or punished. Now, it’s men who must go through their own path of emancipation — from the role of the all-powerful, emotionless provider to becoming polygamous and free human beings.
"There are many things, especially regarding sex, that cannot be discussed openly without punishment and have to be thought and felt privately, for the most part. This is especially true, of the very deepest feelings, thoughts, and desires people perceive about sex. The most interesting stuff cannot be uttered."
Tatiana Gerasimenok: That’s why open dialogue about taboo subjects is vital — it enables us to confront uncomfortable truths honestly and without fear. Transparency and the willingness to explore our darkest desires and emotions — while finding constructive and rational ways to express them — are the foundation of a mentally healthy and intellectually advancing society.
Now it is time for men to reclaim their autonomy just as women once did.
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